How Charles Mingus changed my (sexual) life 💫🙏💫

 

From Charles Mingus’  “Beneath the Underdog”:

“He told them that sex was important and not a dirty thing. "Don't masturbate," he said. "Don't waste your youth. Learn to control yourself. Discover the girls. If you allow them to take advantage, they will take the piss out of you all your life.

Listen to what I tell you and you will understand that they want you more than you don't want them. And all here the art of sex between man and woman. They are ready to pay such an understanding man because most men believe that a woman does not like the same sugars that he likes, that she finds what he wants to do to her horrible. So when she finally accepts, he treats her as if it were a receptacle, a machine to come. He doesn't even give her a slap on the head when she's done. Once an old sage told me a story. He said:

'If you put into practice what I tell you, every woman you touch will come back to ask for your cookie, with these precise words: she will confess that no one has ever done anything like this to her in her entire life'. So spoke the old man, and I should make you pay for this advice. One of these days you will enter this room, you will give me some money saying: 'You were absolutely right, Collette' What that old man gave me are good rules to fuck well, if one does not already have this talent by nature.

Kiss her. Play it a little. Then insert your cookie, only the tip, the head. Rub it up and down the slit quite a bit, on the clitoris.

Then a little in and out, from top to bottom and all around, until she has warmed up a little

. You have to go on and make love like this For hours: kissing her, playing, sucking her tits, and eating that beautiful pussy until she starts begging you. Then you don't just have to skewer it. Put them inside your head, calm and Sweet"

All this from an adult was surprising. Charles blushed, while Buddy smiled: he had already heard these speeches. Even now that they are men, he and Charles sometimes discuss those courses.

Pop continued. "When it's so well wet that it drips on the sheets, don't play those silly white games with her. Just a nice old-fashioned fuck. The best position for Old man was on his side with her lying on his back, because he was big. By now she's almost dying of desire, but you're still tormenting her and you give it to her little by little. Stay inside her for a while to let her taste what kind of cookie you can give her, but if she really wants it, take it out, all out, and go up and down around the lips. Then suddenly give him a nice deep skewer and leave it inside nice and hard, rocking from one side to the other. Then take it out almost completely. Torment her.

Move in all directions, but so gently that she barely perceives that she is moving. Tighten and loosen his muscles. This will give her a sense of pulsation. She will want it all again. Go out.

Then, just when she gives up and relaxes on her ass, you stick it in her as hard and deep as you can. Then take it out quickly and hit again. When it's all inside don't move for a moment. Hold it hard and rock, then gently pull it out again. This time pull back some of her soft meat: she will try to follow you to keep it inside. Now start begging you to skewer her again like you just did. Don't be there.

Play to torment her a little more. If she has never done such a thing she will start to become frantic, crying and pre-garting. Then — when you've decided — give it back to him loud, fast and deep. Put it on her and keep it there, rocking from side to side, kiss her and make her rock too. Then let her go and pretend to be finished. Take it out. And if at this point she doesn't start hugging you and begging you, begging you to fuck her your way, then you can go outside and get one of those Cadillacs! Now, Charles, try the first little girl that comes your way. Observe how different his reaction will be. You'll see if he won't tell you exactly these words: 'Charles, in my entire life no one has ever done it to me like this!' And let's see if you don't immediately feel obliged to take out a hundred dollars for me!"

That’s it, plain & simple… thanks, Charles: you’ve been more than a father or an older pal… thanks, wherever you are I’d sure feel obliged to take out one hundred dollars for ya 🤟💫🙏🥂💫

Godsend 💫